Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts

Karen Kleiman

Normalizing the thoughts beneath maternal mood swings

Women may revisit postpartum experiences when supporting daughters, becoming grandmothers, or recognizing how alone they once felt. Kleiman and illustrator Molly McIntyre normalize intrusive thoughts, anxiety, shame, depression, and the gap between idealized motherhood and lived experience. Mood swings after birth can have many causes, and frightening thoughts deserve careful assessment—especially when accompanied by intent, psychosis, or inability to function. For readers seeking a more deliberate next chapter, the book offers language that reduces secrecy without minimizing risk. A thought is not the same as an action, and asking for qualified help is a sign of protection, not proof that someone is a bad mother.

About Karen Kleiman

Karen Kleiman founded the Postpartum Stress Center after recognizing how often mothers concealed distress from professionals and relatives. She later partnered with illustrator Molly McIntyre so cartoons could make frightening thoughts discussable before shame silenced them.

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